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Buddhist Faith Fellowship at the Mansfield Freeman Center

 
 
 

Welcome!

 

 

Buddhism is a life long education to learn how to realize our human potential by transforming suffering into peace, joy and liberation.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Meditation-thon 2010 

 

for World Peace

register now and make a difference 

(see below)

 

 

 

Come and practice with us on most Sunday mornings,

overlooking a Zen garden at the inspirational

Mansfield Freeman Center for East Asian Studies,

Wesleyan University, Middletown, Connecticut,

10 a.m. to 11:45 - 12 p.m. 

 

 Please arrive 10 minutes early but if you are late,

 feel free to join us.  Dress informally and comfortably.

Open to all beginners and advanced seekers.

 

 

All new guests will receive a free gift book, 

Living Meditation, Living Insight

by Dr. Thynn Thynn.

 

 

Sunday morning activities are offered Free of Charge 

but a donation is greatly appreciated.

(a minumum suggested donation is $10)

See our calendar below.

 

 

e-mail us

amida@bffct.net

or call us for more information

 

(860) 805-2078

 

Join our American Shin community
Practice and live a happy life.

 New To Site 

  

Meditation-thon for World Peace 2010. Meditate for world peace and at the same time help us fundraise to establish a new Buddhist Peace Center in Middletown. This unique event will take place on April 11 in Middletown, Ct. Volunteers and sponsors wanted. To learn more, register as a Peace Meditator visit http://buddhistfaith.tripod.com/giving/id15.html

 

Make Your Own Altar Workshop Learn about and create your own altar out of clementine boxes and other simple materials. On Saturday, March 20 at Green Street Art Center, Middletown. Registration open until 03/17. Visit http://dharmaquest.bffct.net/index.html

 

Buddhist Film Festival 2010 On Wed. March. 31, at the Buttonwood Tree, Middletown, we will showcase Cherry Blossoms.  Best Film of Seattle Film Festival and Best Actor in German Film Awards. See below for details. Free of charge.

 

Mindful Loving Course. Open for registration till Apr 11. Starts Apr 18. This new course is about how to love and be loved. It blends buddhist spirituality and pyschotherapy to help you create deeper connections with others and life itself. To learn more and/or to register visit http://dharmaquest.bffct.net/index.html limited enrollment.

  

Buddhist 12 Step Group.  Do you have an addiction? Drugs? Alcohol? Porn? Nicotine? Gambling? Eating? etc. To help you in your recovery, we have created a new non-sectarian Buddhist 12 Step Group. This is the first in the state. Our 12 Step Group meets on Mondays at 7:00 @ the First United Methodist Church in Middletown. See below for more information. For contact, and/or join our e-mail list click buddha12step@hotmail.com

 

Our Newest Short Video. Take a look at our film, entitled BFF of Ct: Community, that deplicts our sangha, its members and varied activiities.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cdsdfkZnWZ0

 

BFF of Ct's Facebook. Have you become a fan of our Facebook site? Be a fan and keep in touch with us and others. We send out a newsletter and updates a couple of times a month. See Facebook web page for link or click here. http://www.facebook.com/pages/Middletown-CT/Buddhist-Faith-Fellowship-of-Connecticut/19836119560

Come as you are and practice with us
Sunday Mornings at the BFF of Ct

MIDDLETOWN

CALENDAR

 

(Updated on March 9, 2010)

 

 

Winter Theme:

Touching Peace

& Discovering Faith

 

 

02/14. NIRVANA DAY - Embrace Life-As-It-Is: Impermanence, Death and Rebirth. Come and honor the Buddhist festival of Nirvana Day – Nehan-e that commemorates the passing of the historical Buddha over 2,500 years ago with story, discussion and song. The discussion will explore the Last Teaching of the Buddha and how it may be applied to 21st century America.

 

02/14. World Sound Healing Day 2010: Every year on this date, at 12 noon (eastern time), people around the world join together to chant love and appreciation to Mother Earth. The chant is the simple sound of “Ah” and lasts for 5 minutes. The “Ah” is a universal sound that when projected as a collective practice with focus and intention is powerful & therapeutic. Join us and send a sonic valentine to Earth and project your intention of love and healing to Earth and to yourself. This special event will take place after our Sunday gathering at 12 noon. You are welcome to stay and participate in this transformational practice.

 

02/21. Did Buddha Ever Have "A Case of the Mondays"?  A discussion about “Work and Buddhism” In this discussion we will explore work as an integral part of our spiritual path rather than a barrier to it. We will focus on how to remain mindful during times of stress on the job as well as how to recognize opportunities in our employment for gratitude, meditation, and transformation. This discussion will be based on the book entitled Work as a Spiritual Practice by Lewis Richmond. Presented by Jinshu.

 

02/21. Mantra Healing Circle. This therapeutic tool addresses your personal needs and concerns through the power of sound vibrations. Starts at 12:15 p.m. Includes some sitting meditation. Open to all. Free. Lead by Myo-on.

 

02/28. Bowing to the Altar of You and Namu Amida Butsu. Let's explore the purpose of altars - and discuss how having a home altar can enhance our daily practice. Discussion will be about the important practice of bowing and how to create your own altar and daily practice. Presented by Shoshin.

 

03/07. Mindful Loving: 10 Practices for Creating Deeper Connections. Most relationships are unsuccessful because they are ego based. Learning how to create a spiritual relationship can lead to our own happiness and to better our connections with others. Mindful loving not only works for our romantic relationships but can help any relationship in our lives - Our sitting mediation includes sound healing. We will play calm and soothing De-Stress selections. De-Stress has slow pulsed tones to calm heart rate & respiration and psycho-acoustic sonic entrainment frequencies to relax mind & body. Presented by Myo-on.

 

03/14. In the Name of Love. Explore how the Great Compassion (Amida Buddha) comes forth into the world transforming anxiety, strife and fear into the sustance of enlightenment. Metaphors from American history will be used to explain the Primal Vow and how it can be seen as our spiritual Emancipation Proclamation. Presented by Senpai.

 

03/21. Balance: The White Path through Fire and Water. Using the Parable of the White Path by Shan-tao various ways of maintaining balance and entrusting will be discussed.  How can we use faith and shinjin to negotiate our foolishness, ignorance and passion? Presented by Dojin.

 

03/21. Rededication Day.This is a Shin Observance Day called Higan, meaning "Other Shore." It corresponds to the Spring Equinox. On this day, there is a harmony of light and darkness, and we rededicate ourselves to the Buddha's teachings in order to realize harmony and awakening within our lives.

 

03/28. Awakening is Relational. Some think that in Buddhism relationships are "fetters" to be avoided and discarded. This talk and discussion will reveal how human relationships are the most important vehicle to help us awakened to our true nature. Relationships help us see the underlying interconnectedness that allows us to see the Buddha in everyone and in all things. Presented by Senpai.

 

04/04. Flower Festival. Celebrate the birth of the historical birth 2,500 years ago in Lumbini Garden. A statue of the baby buddha will be on the altar. This special gathering is great for families and newcomers. Includes ceremonial washing of the baby buddha, the retelling of the birth story, chanting and song, prayer, and a discussion on the significance of the Buddha and his teachings in our lives. In addition, this will be the 9th anniversary of our community. Special words will be given to honor the sangha and its evolution over the years. Presented by Senpai.

 

04/11. The Path of Water. How does great compassion smooth our rough edges?  How are we lead to peace and harmony? This talk will explore water as a metaphor to describe the dynamic working of Amida Buddha in our lives? Presented by Senpai.

 

04/18. Euthanasia and Suicide. What is the approach that Buddhist takes to these controversial issues? Is it ever ethical to commit suicide? Is euthansasia a "sin"? Explore the realms of applied Buddhist ethics. Excerpt readings from Buddhist Ethics by Damian Keown and Ocean by Kenneth Tanaka. Presented by Daikan.

04/25. Letters to and from the Buddha Within: Journaling as a Spiritual Practice. Explore writing as a form of mindfulness meditation. Consider how journaling takes "the raw material of daily life and [transforms] it into wisdom, peace, and joy". Sangha members can share their current writing habits and state their intentions to begin, resume, or enhance their journaling practice. Excepts from: Mindful Recovery: A Spiritual Path to Healing From Addiction written by Thomas Bien, Ph.D. & Beverly Bien, M.Ed. Presented by Jinshu.

 

05/02. Wake Up and Become Sane. Explore and appreciate how the Buddha was and still is the quintessential master psychotherapist. The discussion will look into the path towards greater health. Inspired by A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose. Presented by Jiko.

 

05/09. Embraced and Never Abandoned. Mother's Day. Presented by Senpai.

 

05/16. Loving-Kindness- the Path of the Foolish Bodhisattva. This talk and discussion will examine compassion looking at why should we care? How able are we to care? How can we let go of outcomes? It will draw from buddhist prayer and the insights from in the Tannisho, the words of Shinran Shonin, the founder and foremost teacher of Shin Buddhism, Presented by Shoju.

 

05/16. Mantra Healing Circle. This therapeutic tool addresses your personal needs and concerns through the power of sound vibrations. Starts at 12:15 p.m. Includes some sitting meditation. Open to all. Free. Lead by Myo-on. 

05/23. Just As I Am. The talk and discussion will cover the radical Shin teaching of unconditional love and compassion. Unlike other religions, Shin has no requirements of any kind in order to experience liberation (salvation). Presented by Senpai.

 

05/30. Annual Wisteria Festival - Memorial Day Picnic. Wisteria Festival celebrates the birth of Shinran Shonin, the founder and foremost teacher who was born almost 750 years ago. No Wesleyan Gathering.

06/06. Buddhist Poetry: What Words Can't Describe. Poetry can be a vehicle to express our faith and spiritual experience. Also, it can arouse faith and inspire others to follow the Way of the Buddha. We will read poems by members of the Sangha and other Buddhist writers such as Thich Nhat Hahn and the Shin Myokonins as a basis of discussion of the deep meaning our practice brings to our lives Presented by Dojin.

 

06/13. Mindfulness Retreat - Topic: Presence & Overcoming Craving. Lead by Senpai with special guest Darren Littlejohn, author of The 12 Step Buddhist. More information is forthcoming. Registration starts in April. This retreat will take place in New Hartford. No Weslesyan Gathering.

 

06/20. Sharing a Big Belly Laugh with Buddha: How Humor Can Improve Our Practice. Discover how humor can help us keep all aspects of our lives and practice in perspective. Discuss the "curse" of seriousness and benefits of viewing our ego as a clown. Also, with any luck, we will share a few laughs together. Excerpts from It's Up to You: The Practice of Self-Reflection on the Buddhist Path by Dzigar Kongtrul. Presented by Jinshu.

 

06/27. Something You Forgot...Along the Way. This talk and discussion will present heart-warming stories that will explore life's basic truths, and spiritual and psychological insights. They will inspire you to look deeply within yourself and stir the aspiration to seek your inner potential of wisdom and compassion. Readings from the book with the same title of this talk, written by Kentetsu Takamori. Presented by Senpai.

 

07/04. Fourth of July. No Wesleyan Gathering.

 

07/11. to be announced.  Also, Graduation for Buddhism 101 Course. Presented by Senpai.

 

07/18. Obon: The Buddhist Festival of the Dead. Event details are forthcoming.

 

07/25. Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff.  Learn to live in the present moment.  Do one thing at a time.  We will explore how these and several other techniques author Carlson recommends to keep the little things from taking over your life bear an uncanny resemblance to the Buddhist path of avoiding too much attachment and too much aversion and accepting reality as it is.  Presented by Kisen. 

 

Meditation – thon for World Peace 2010

 

Our goal is promoting world peace

and raising $5,000 for our future Peace Center

 

 

Sunday, April 11, 2010

The Buddhist House, 356 Washington Street, Middletown, Ct

Volunteers wanted: buddhist or non buddhist 

 

Our Growth & Goal

 

As you may know, our sangha is growing at a fast pace. There are more and more people attending our Sunday morning gatherings. Soon, we very well may run out of room. In addition, we are offering more and more spiritually orientated activities like our 12 Step Group, Buddhist Film Festival, Buddhist art workshops, Buddhist courses and very soon our Family Dharma Group. All of these activities are located in different venues around Middletown and even outside the city. Our goal is to establish a center that will house all of these activities. In this way, we will be able to increase the quality of these activities and services while offering newer ones like meditation and yoga workshops, and a Buddhist café/bookstore.

 

Your Meditation-thon efforts as a Peace Meditator, will further progress us in the direction in creating our future center for peace. We hope in 2011 we will be able to have the funds to get this project going. It will be the 10th year anniversary of the Buddhist Faith Fellowship and Shinran Shonin 750th year Memorial Observance. This center will be dedicated to inner and social peace through the practice and sharing the Buddha’s teachings in the Central Connecticut.

 

Volunteer, Sponsor or Dedicate

 

Please consider volunteering or sponsoring this event. To register and participate as a "Peace Meditator," or make a pledge or even dedicate a time slot to a loved one in need, please  isit the Meditation-thon 2010 web site at http://buddhistfaith.tripod.com/giving/id15.html

 

 

A Unique Experience

 

On Sunday, April 11, 2010, the Buddhist Faith Fellowship and some of its chapters throughout North America will be participating in its 3rd annual Meditation–thon for World Peace. Akin to the walk–a-tons promoted by many charities around the country, we have designed a way to fundraise doing what we Buddhist do best, meditate. However, one does not need to be a “Buddhist” to meditate. Meditation is an ancient human practice not a buddhist one. Furthermore, you do not have to be a particularly good one either. Anyone can participate from the novice to the most advanced.

 

Our Objectives

 

This unique event has 2 objectives, 1) to promote world peace and 2) to fundraise $5,000 that will go toward helping finance our future Buddhist Center in Middletown, Connecticut. This center will be a vehicle for inner peace in Middletown and in the State of Connecticut

1) Sunday morning children program

2) Buddhist library

3) Large shrine room

4) 12 step program

5) center of social action

6) Courses on spirituality and Buddhism

7) Spiritual retreats

8) Art and craft workshops

9) Outreach

10) Buddhist bookstore

11) Meditation workshops

12) Yoga and Tai Chi classes 

Learn More

 

To learn more about this unique event visit our Meditation –thon 2010 at http://buddhistfaith.tripod.com/giving/id15.html

 

Chile’s Earthquake Relief

 

As you have heard, the beautiful country of Chile experienced a massive and historic 8.8 earthquake which was 800 times stronger then the one that shook Haiti. In addition, parts of its coastline were hit by a 10 foot high tsunami that wiped out many villages and ports.

 

As a result, millions of people have been negatively affected by these natural disasters. Some have lost loved ones and/or all of their possessions. Soon, the cool autumn and then winter season will be arriving in Chile, and those people without homes will need shelter, clothing, medical supplies and other provisions. In addition, the Chilean government will have to rebuild the country’s damaged and destroyed infrastructure. The work will be tremendous and will take time and energy to complete.

 

Please consider giving to the Chilean Government Disaster Relief Fund or any other reputable charity in order to give immediate assistance to suffering and to help rebuild the central region of Chile.  Thank you so much for giving assistance and hope to others in need. Namu Amida Butsu!

 

We have provided a link to the Chilean Embassy in Washington D.C. that has established a special Bank of America account that is strictly dedicated to earthquake relief.

 

http://www.chile-usa.org/

 

Furthermore, Google has provided a web site that facilitates general Chilean relief information that includes Unicef.

 

http://www.google.com/intl/eng/relief/chileearthquake/

 

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Donate to Haiti Relief

Haiti's Earthquake Recovery

 

Support The Earthquake Recovery Efforts in Haiti. The people of Haiti desperately need our assistance more than ever. Food, water, shelter and first-aid supplies are the first priority. The rebuilding of the country will be necessary. Please consider donating to the Clinton Bush

Haiti Fund and share hope and American goodwill.

 

We recommend the Clinton Bush Haiti Fund for two important reasons. First, due to their presidential status and humanitarian reputations they will make sure your donations will get to those in need. They claim 99% of the donation will go to the survivors. Secondly, they will work to provide immediate relief and long-term support to earthquake survivors.  Visit http://clintonbushhaitifund.org/ and make a donation. Let's not forget the Haitian people. Thank you.

 

Buddhist Altar

Make Your Own Altar Workshop
 

Out of a Clementine box

Saturday, March 20th

 

10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m.

 

GREEN STREET ARTS CENTER

51 Green Street, Middletown, CT

 

Open to Buddhists and non-Buddhists

 

 

Enrollment limited to 15

Register on-line or use the mail in registration form

Visit http://dharmaquest.bffct.net/index.html

 

Unleash your creativity in service of your spirituality.   Honor what is sacred to you. Enhance your daily practice and beautify your home.

 

Make your own home altar in this 3 hour hands-on workshop. Feel free to bring decorations to combine with the beautiful papers which will be provided. These unique altars can be incorporated to any spiritual practice, not just a Buddhist one. One can decorate it with anything that inspires you in remember and seek the sacred within.

 

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Buddhist Film Festival 2010

 

March 31 at 7:00 p.m.

 

The Buddhist Film Festival of Connecticut 2010 will screen Cherry Blossoms by one of the best German film makers, Doris Dorie, who also directed How to Cook Your Life.  This elegantly beautiful film won the Best Film Award in the Seattle Film Festival and Outstanding Feature & Best Actor in the German Films Awards in 2008. Cherry Blossoms is a poignant celebration of beauty, new beginnings, and the ultimate metaphor for the impermanence of life. It takes place in Japan during very special cherry blossom season. It deals with life/death with Buddhist concepts subtly interwoven. 

 

Cheery Blossoms will be shown on March 31 at 7:00 p.m. It is open to the general public free of charge at the Buttonwood Tree Performing Arts and Cultural Center at 605 Main Street, Middletown, Connecticut. http://www.buttonwood.org/cgi/calendar.plThere is plenty of free street parking.

  

What is the Buddhist Film Festival of Connecticut? It showcases cinemagraphic works that explore the Buddhist religious experience or take on Buddhist spiritual themes. All viewings are free of charge and are part of the our New England Institute of Buddhist Studies' (NEIBS) Buddhist Film Course.   One does not need to be a NEIBS student to attend. It is open to the general public. http://dharmaquest.bffct.net/

 

The Film Festival 2010 Calendar

 

Baraka - January

 

Little Buddha - February

 

Cherry Blossoms – March.

 

This will be the last film until the autumn 2010.

 

Visitor – October. This 2009 film did not get nearly enough attention- even though Richard Jenkins received Best Actor nomination for his performance.  The theme of film is "just connect". It is a beautiful story of what can happen when lives intersect and people are willing and able to drop their story lines- and "just connect." 

 

We hope you can attend and lend support to our sangha and Buddhist culture.

Please spread the word and bring some friends too.

Click here to learn or buy this book

Our Buddhist 12 Step Group
 

Open to buddhists and non-buddhists

 

Looking to be addiction or craving free? Are your seeking to be sober, clean and free? We have established the first Buddhist 12 Step Group for addiction recovery in the State of Connecticut. You do not have to be a Buddhist to participate or benefit from our 12 Step Group. This non-sectarian group meets on Monday evenings at 7 – 8:30 @ the First United Methodist Church, 24 Old Church Street, Middletown. Our 12 Step Group applies Buddhist principles to recovery.  The 12 Step Buddhist by Darren Littlejohn is our Group’s guiding book. For newcomers, the inspirational A Teaching A Day is given free. Other suggested books are One Breath at a Time: Buddhism and the 12 Steps by Kevin Griffin, Mindful Recovery by Thomas Bien, and The Zen of Recovery by Mel Ash.

 

If you are interested in participating or are looking for more information about our Buddhist 12 Step Group or joining our 12 Step e-mailing list, contact us at buddha12step@hotmail.com

 

To read more about this unique 12 Step Group visit

http://buddhistfaith.tripod.com/project/id14.html

 

 

 

OUR BUDDHIST CHAPTERS WORLD-WIDE

 

To visit our Chapter/Practice Groups’ web sites

visit our Connecticut &World Wide Chapters page

 

 

Ongoing. The East Alabama Buddhist Fellowship in Alabama gathers on a regular basis. Hosted by Practice Leader Mr. Chris Marbutt.

 

 

Ongoing. The Sarasota Buddhist Fellowship in Florida gathers on a regular basis. Hosted by former Connecticut member and now Practice Leader Ms. Geena Tomlinson.  

 

Ongoing. Grupo Budista de Benito Juárez meets once a month in  Benito Juárez, Argentina with meditation and nembutsu. This group's Practice Leader is Sebastián Calo.

 

Ongoing. Grupo Budista de Córdoba meets once a month in Córdoba Argentina with meditation and nembutsu. This group's Practice Leader is Rodrigo Pedraza Cécere 

 

Ongoing. Brevard County Buddhist Fellowship (BCBF) serves Titusville, Cape Canaveral, Satellite Beach, Merritt  Island and more. This active and growing community has three sanghas. 

 

Ongoing. Southington Buddhist Fellowship gathers on the first Friday of the month, serving Southington, Chershire, Wolcott, Waterbury and Meriden Buddhists and Friends. Hosted by Bob W. 

 

Ongoing. Social Action Project. Our active Buddhist human and environmental advocacy group meets regularly with field trips and activities. It host our 12 Step Buddhist Group that seeks recovery from all sorts of craving and addictions. Get involved! Visit web site.

 

Ongoing. Albuquerque Buddhist Fellowship Group. Meets on most Sunday mornings at the First Unitarian Church in Albuquerque, New Mexico. Hosted by BFF Practice Leader Dug Corpolongo. Visit web site.

 

Ongoing. Northern Ontario Buddhists. Meets in Massey, Ontario. Hosted by S. Dreaver.  Visit this Canadian Buddhist web site for more information.

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and guides people to Nirvana, the Buddha is the
King of the Truth, he is the Teacher of Gods and humans."

Larger Sutra, Chap. 33

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